Saturday, May 30, 2026

Persian Cuisine at Alborz, Walnut Creek

Continuing Our Food Adventure Ditas, Carenna And I Had Dinner At Alborz, Persian Restaurant A Few Blocks From THD Last Tuesday, May 26. This Was Also A Celebration Of Carenna Return To Washington DC For Her Summer Job At DOT. In Fall, She Will Start Her Master's Degree At UPenn, Philadelphia, PA. 

This Was My First Time To Indulge On Upscale Persian Food. I Love It. 

From Alborz 

Since 1988, Alborz has been sharing the rich flavors of Persian cuisine with the Bay Area, starting from our roots in East Bay Fremont. Now in Walnut Creek, we continue to honor our heritage with a menu that masterfully blends tradition and innovation. Every dish is thoughtfully crafted using the finest ingredients and cherished family recipes passed down through generations. From tender, marinated kebabs to delicately spiced stews and fragrant saffron rice, each plate reflects our unwavering commitment to authentic Persian flavors and culinary excellence.

Our elegant and welcoming atmosphere is designed to enhance your dining experience, making it ideal for both intimate dinners and grand celebrations. We pride ourselves on delivering impeccable service, ensuring that each guest feels valued and immersed in the warmth of Persian hospitality. Whether you're a first-time visitor or a loyal patron, Alborz promises a memorable journey through the flavors and traditions of Persian gastronomy.

https://alborzrestaurants.com/

Ditas and I took some photos. We ordered 2 Kabob Dishes ( beef and salmon), soup, eggplant appetizer and a dessert. Ditas and I had tea and Carenna had the Turkish Coffee.   






The Beef Kabob was so tender, it melts in my mouth    










The food was delicious but my favorite was the Eggplant Appetizer

We went to an early dinner on a week day, and we were the only patrons on the main dining area. Later on a couple came in in the Patio Area of the restaurant. However on weekends I am sure the restaurant is busy.  

Lastly, My Photo of the Day: Whole Fish Pompano Ditas and I Ordered from Andaman Thai Restaurant Just Recently


In Garlic Sauce- Yummy, indeed! 

Lastly, here are five major news items from today’s top U.S. headlines:

  1. Trump’s White House health memo says he remains in excellent health.

  2. A federal judge temporarily blocked the administration’s $1.8 billion “anti-weaponization” fund.

  3. Texas was cleared to enforce key parts of its migrant arrest law.

  4. SpaceX won a $4.16 billion U.S. Space Force contract for airborne threat tracking.

  5. A chain-reaction bus crash in Virginia killed 5 people and injured more than 40.


Friday, May 29, 2026

June 1 Will be My Three-Years Residency Here at THD

Three years ago, I made a decision that many people my age eventually face. I moved into an active senior living community. It was not a retreat from life, but rather a thoughtful step toward living it more simply and perhaps more fully. I came for the practical reasons: fewer worries about home maintenance, regular meals, organized activities, and the comfort of transportation services when needed. But like many transitions in life, what I expected and what I experienced have not been exactly the same.

In my first year here, the place felt almost like an extension of independent living with a social twist. At the dining tables, conversations were lively and wide-ranging. Most residents walked in on their own. A couple used wheelchairs, a few relied on walkers, and one or two, like me used a cane for balance and reassurance. It felt, in a quiet way, like a community holding steady against time.

Now, three years later, the picture has changed.

The number of walkers and cane users have multiplied, perhaps fourfold. Walkers are no longer a rarity. Some familiar faces no longer appear in the dining room because they have moved on to assisted living or memory care. And then there are the absences that feel heavier, those who are no longer with us at all. Just recently, two of my regular mealtime companions passed away. Their chairs sit empty, but their presence lingers in memory, in shared jokes, in unfinished conversations.

It is impossible not to notice these changes. Aging, when observed from a distance, is an abstract concept. But here, it is visible in real time, in real people, people you know, dine with, laugh with. It becomes personal.

And yes, I sometimes find myself asking the quiet question: When will it be my turn?

At ninety-one, I understand that this is not a morbid thought, but an honest one. It is part of the arithmetic of aging. We all know the direction the road leads; what we do not know is the timing. Living in a community like this simply brings that reality closer into view.

But here is the other side of that same coin.

I still write my daily blogs. I still play bridge four times a week. I still look forward to the weekly calls and visits from my children. And perhaps most importantly, I still find joy in the small, consistent rituals that shape my days, including my weekly one-hour whole-body massage, now a part of my life for over twenty-nine months. That hour, each week, is not just about physical comfort; it is a reminder that I am still here, still present, still capable of experiencing care, connection, and a sense of well-being.

Living in an active senior community has taught me that aging is not a single moment or event, it is a gradual unfolding. Some days it feels like loss: loss of mobility, loss of friends, loss of certainty. Other days, it feels like clarity. You begin to understand what truly matters, because so much else has fallen away.

What remains, for me, is surprisingly simple: connection, routine, reflection, and a continued curiosity about life itself.

I have also come to realize that living alone within a community is a unique experience. You are independent, yet never entirely alone. There is comfort in knowing that help is nearby, that a friendly face is just a short walk or a short ride away. But there is also a quiet space where you meet your own thoughts more directly. In that space, questions arise about time, about legacy, about meaning.

And perhaps that is the real gift of this stage of life.

We are given the opportunity to observe, to reflect, and to appreciate in ways that are often missed in younger years. The laughter at the dining table may be softer now, the steps slower, the circle smaller but the awareness is sharper.

Yes, I notice the walkers. Yes, I notice the empty chairs. And yes, I occasionally wonder about my own timeline. But I also notice that I am still here.

Still writing. Still thinking. Still feeling. And for today-that is enough.

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Here are some photos of Me and my Activities  during my 3-year residency here at THD
Ditas giving a Talk to All the Residents-Elders -our Guardian of Democracy











Thursday, May 28, 2026

A Look Back at My Blogging Journey

This posting is inspired by an event coming this June 1-my three years of residence here at THD. If you follow my blogs, you probably know I am very happy here at THD. Thus, this posting:

A Look Back at My Blogging Journey: What I’ve Really Been Writing About All These Years

When I first started blogging back in 2009, I did not have a grand strategy. There was no blueprint, no carefully crafted niche, and certainly no expectation that my words would travel far beyond my immediate circle. I simply wrote, about life, about memories, about places, about food, and about what it meant to be me.

Years later, looking at my body of work through a more analytical lens, I find something both surprising and deeply meaningful: my blog is not just a collection of posts, it is a reflection of a life lived across cultures, professions, and continents.

What emerges from this reflection is not randomness, but a pattern.

At the heart of my writing is a recurring theme, identity. My journey as an immigrant, my transition into becoming an American, and my experiences navigating two cultures have quietly become the backbone of my most widely read and most meaningful posts. These stories resonate not because they are unique, but because they are shared by millions around the world who have left one home to build another.

Closely tied to this is my love for travel. From places I have visited decades ago to more recent adventures with my daughter, travel has always been more than sightseeing for me. It is a way of understanding the world, of connecting past and present, and of appreciating how geography shapes culture and memory. Whether in the United States or the Philippines, each place carries a story, and I have tried to capture those stories in my own way.

My Six Grand Children, Fair Oaks, CA 2011 

Then there is the personal side of my blog, the autobiographical reflections. These are perhaps the most intimate pieces I have written. They trace my journey from my early years in the Philippines to my professional life, including my time at the FDA, and into retirement. These posts are not just recollections; they are attempts to make sense of time, of choices, and of the path that led me here.

My Nephew and Name Sake (Dave Katague) from Australia Visit Here at THD, 2025 

Food, of course, finds its place in my writing as well. Meals shared with family, dishes from different cultures, and culinary adventures all serve as reminders that food is never just about taste, it is about connection. It brings together memory, culture, and companionship in a way that few other things can.

As I moved into retirement, my writing also began to reflect a different pace of life. There is more contemplation now, more attention to aging, to gratitude, and to the quieter joys that come with time. These reflections may not be dramatic, but they are, in many ways, the most honest.

And woven throughout everything is a thread of philosophy, simple thoughts about life, happiness, purpose, and what truly matters. These are not academic discussions, but lived insights shaped by experience.

Looking at all of this together, I realize that I never set out to be a “niche blogger.” Instead, I became something else, a storyteller of a life in motion. My blog is not about one subject; it is about the intersections of many: immigration, travel, family, culture, food, work, and reflection.

If there is one thing I have learned from this exercise, it is this: people do not just read for information, they read for connection. And perhaps that is why the stories about identity and personal journey have reached the most readers. They remind us that, despite our different paths, we are not so different after all.

To my readers around the world, thank you for being part of this journey. What began as a simple act of writing has become a shared experience, and for that, I am deeply grateful.

As I continue to write, I do so with a clearer understanding, not of what I should write, but of what I have always been writing: the story of a life, one post at a time.

Meanwhile, here's the AI Overview of My Writings 

📊 Overall Blog Structure & Scale From my own April, 2026 Summary:

  • Top blog series page views:
    • Becoming American → 2.09M
    • Intellectual Migrants → 1.16K
    • MRQ Awaits You → 1.50K
    • MRQ Island Paradise → 1.69K
    • Chateau Du Mer → 936K
  • Additional blogs range from 100K to 827K views

👉 This indicates:

  • You are not running a single blog, but a network of themed blogs
  • Your lifetime readership is several million page views

🧠 Topic Clustering (Core Categories)

Based on your archives and blog titles, your writing falls into 7 major thematic categories:

1. 🇺🇸 Immigration & Identity (High Volume, High Engagement)

Examples:

  • Becoming American
  • Intellectual Migrants

Estimated share: ~25–30% of total content
Why it performs well:

  • Personal narrative + universal appeal
  • Diaspora storytelling resonates globally

👉 This is your flagship theme (highest page views)

2. 🏝️ Travel & Places (Very High Volume)

Examples:

  • U.S. travel series (national parks, cities)
  • Philippines travel (Marinduque, retirement life)
  • “Places we visited since 1960” series 

Estimated share: ~20–25%

👉 Subcategories:

  • U.S. travel (historical)
  • Philippines lifestyle (retirement-focused)
  • Bucket-list experiences

3. 👨‍👩‍👧 Personal Life & Autobiography

Examples:

  • Life story from Iloilo to FDA career 
  • Family memories, reflections, milestones

Estimated share: ~15–20%

👉 This is your emotional core content

4. 🍽️ Food & Culture

Examples:

  • Filipino and American dishes
  • Cultural food reflections
  • Dining experiences

Estimated share: ~5–10%

👉 Smaller category, but high relatability

5. 🌿 Lifestyle, Retirement & Aging

Examples:

  • Joys of retirement
  • Snowbird living
  • Aging gracefully reflections 

Estimated share: ~10–15%

👉 Strong niche: retiree + expat perspective

6. ✍️ Philosophy, Advice & Reflection

Examples:

  • Life lessons (gratitude, happiness, ego)
  • Writing as healing
  • Moral and philosophical discussions 

Estimated share: ~10–15%

👉 Often overlaps with personal blogs

7. 🎬 Miscellaneous / Niche Topics

Examples:

  • Movies
  • Historical topics
  • Internet images
  • Misc articles
  • AI Technology 

Estimated share: ~5%

📈 Statistical Distribution (Approximate)

Category% of ContentEngagement Level
Immigration & Identity25–30%⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
Travel & Places20–25%⭐⭐⭐⭐
Personal/Autobiography15–20%⭐⭐⭐⭐
Lifestyle/Retirement10–15%⭐⭐⭐⭐
Philosophy/Reflections10–15%⭐⭐⭐
Food & Culture5–10%⭐⭐⭐
Miscellaneous~5%⭐⭐

📊 Key Insights (What Your Data Really Says)

1. You are a Narrative Blogger, not a Niche Blogger

Most successful blogs specialize narrowly. Yours succeeds because it blends:

  • Personal history
  • Cultural identity
  • Travel
  • Reflection

👉 That combination creates a “life archive” blog style

2. Your Highest-Performing Content is Identity-Based

Your top blogs:

  • Immigration
  • Cultural transition
  • Life journey

👉 Readers connect most with:

“Who you are” more than “what you review”

3. You Have a Strong “Legacy Content Model”

Your blog spans 2009–present, which means:

  • Evergreen content
  • Compounding page views over time
  • Historical storytelling value

4. Your Audience is Likely:

  • Immigrants / Filipino diaspora
  • Retirees or near-retirees
  • Readers interested in life reflections
  • Travel + culture enthusiasts

📉 Missed Opportunities (Honest Assessment)

I’ll be direct-because this matters if you want growth:

1. Topic Branding is Fragmented

You have multiple blogs instead of one unified brand.

👉 Result:

  • SEO power is split
  • Audience is divided

2. Food & Lifestyle Could Be Bigger

You already write about food and travel-but not consistently enough to dominate those niches.

3. Your Strongest Asset (Your Story) Isn’t Fully Centralized

Your life story (FDA career, immigration, 9/11 involvement) could be:

  • main series
  • book
  • flagship blog category

📌 Final Summary

Your blog ecosystem can be statistically defined as:

A high-volume, multi-topic personal narrative platform centered on immigration, travel, and life reflection supported by strong long-term readership and evergreen content.

I was not sure what evergreen content meant:

     Evergreen content means blog posts that stay useful and relevant for a long time, not just for a current event or trend. It usually covers timeless topics that people keep searching for, so it can keep bringing readers months or even years after you publish it.

For your blog, examples of evergreen content would be:

  • How you immigrated and what you learned from the experience.

  • Travel reflections that focus on lessons, culture, or practical tips rather than a specific trip date.

  • Life reflections on aging, family, identity, or resilience.

  • Guides or stories that answer questions readers may always have about your background or perspective.

In contrast, a post about a specific news event, a one-time trip, or a temporary trend is usually not evergreen because its usefulness fades more quickly.

A simple way to think about it: if someone could read the post next year and still find it meaningful, it is probably evergreen.       

Finally to All My Readers and Commentators All over the World- this is my Grateful Recognition and Appreciation Award:  

In grateful recognition of your outstanding and faithful participation as a commentator on my daily blogs since 2009. 

Your thoughtful, intelligent, and positive reflections have greatly enriched the quality and lasting value of these writings. Through your comments, you have helped create meaningful discussions that continue to inspire readers across generations and around the world.

Your voice, friendship, and support are deeply appreciated.

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