Ypu Are Never Too Old To Dream

You Are Never Too Old to Dream-Reflections on Turning 91

As I approach my 91st birthday, I find myself returning to a simple truth: you are never too old to dream. Not at 60. Not at 75. Not at 90. And certainly not at 91.

Dreaming, I’ve learned, is not something reserved for the young. It is a life force, an ember that refuses to go out as long as we continue to breathe, imagine, hope, and care.

Over the years, I’ve lived through chapters I never predicted:

• A long, meaningful career at the FDA and from three other Non-Federal organizations.

• A role in the aftermath of 9/11, helping at a time of national heartbreak.

• A blogging journey that began in 2009 and continues to this very day.

• Becoming a great-grandfather—twice!

• And navigating the challenges of aging, including Stage 4 kidney disease, with honesty, courage, and humor.

And here I am, still dreaming.

Dreams Change, But They Do Not Disappear

When we are young, dreams often involve the future, careers, families, accomplishments, travel, goals that stretch out years ahead. But at 91, dreams take on a different, deeper shape.

Today, I dream of:

• Time with the people I love.

• Sharing stories that help others reflect on their own lives.

• Living with grace, gratitude, and curiosity.

• Continuing to write blogs that inspire my senior readers.

• Leaving behind words that will comfort my family when I am gone.

And yes, dreaming of simple joys: a good massage, a bright morning, a warm conversation, a new gadget to explore (smartwatches included!), or learning something fascinating about Filipino food, culture, or history. Or Winning or Losing in Bridge and  Mahjong here at THD. 

We never stop dreaming unless we choose to. And I haven’t chosen to stop.

Dreaming Keeps Us Alive

Every week, I hear from my readers, many seniors themselves who say:

“I’m too old to start something new.”
“I wish I had done this earlier.”
“It’s too late for me.”

But it is never too late.

If I can still write, learn, discover, laugh, and dream at 91, so can you.

Dreams are not measured by their size or outcome. They are measured by the life they breathe into our days.

A Lifetime of Dreams Fulfilled and Still Dreaming

As I reflect on nine decades of life, I don’t measure my years by wealth or status or how many things I checked off some imaginary list. I measure them by relationships, health (as best as I can hold on to it), accomplishments, and the family that now spans four generations.

My life has not been perfect, but it has been meaningful. And that, I believe, is the real dream of every human being.

So, To My Senior Readers…

Whether you’re 65, 75, 85, or 95:  Keep dreaming.  Start a project. Pick up a hobby.

Write your story. Learn a technology (AI Apps) your grandchildren use. Travel if you can.

Love deeply. Hope boldly. And above all, wake up each morning believing that something good is still possible.

If turning 91 has taught me anything, it is this:

Dreaming is not something you grow out of. It is something you grow into.

And as long as there is breath in us, there is more to imagine, more to give, more to experience, and more to dream.

Meanwhile, here's the AI Overview on the Above Topic

Famous quotes about dreams emphasize the importance of dreaming, perseverance, and taking action to achieve them.Popular quotes include "All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them" by Walt Disney and "The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams" by Eleanor Roosevelt. Other inspiring sayings highlight that a dream requires a dreamer, hard work, and a refusal to give up, such as "To accomplish great things, we must not only act, but also dream; not only plan, but also believe".  

On believing in and pursuing your dreams

• "All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them." – Walt Disney 
• "The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams." – Eleanor Roosevelt 
• "Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined." – Henry David Thoreau 
• "To accomplish great things, we must not only act, but also dream; not only plan, but also believe." – Henri Frederic Amiel 
• "Every great dream begins with a dreamer." – Harriet Tubman 

On the necessity of action and perseverance

• "A dream doesn\'t become reality through magic; it takes sweat, determination and hard work." – Colin Powell 
• "Never give up on a dream just because of the time it will take to accomplish it. The time will pass anyway." – Earl Nightingale 
• "Hold fast to dreams, for if dreams die, life is a broken-winged bird that cannot fly." – Langston Hughes 
• "You have to dream before your dreams can come true." – A. P. J. Abdul Kalam 
• "If you have built castles in the air, your work need not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them." – Henry David Thoreau 

Related Blogs: My Dreams Filled and Unfulfilled:  

https://chateaudumer.blogspot.com/2018/01/my-fulfilled-and-unfulfilled-childhood.html

https://chateaudumer.blogspot.com/2025/06/our-unfulfilled-dreams-for-chateau-du.html

My Christmas Message This Year

The Christmas season is here, Time for Giving and Gratitude, thus this posting for Today... 

“You Have Not Really Lived If You Have Not Touched the Life of Others”

There is a quote that has followed me through every season of my life:

“You have not really lived if you have not touched the life of others.”
Simple words, but a lifetime has taught me how profoundly true they are.

As I look ahead to my 91st birthday, I find myself returning to memories that feel as vivid as yesterday, memories of my late wife (RIP) and the years when we were younger, stronger, and full of purpose as we joined medical missions in Marinduque, Philippines.

The Early Years of Service

Back then, we didn’t think of our work as something extraordinary. We were simply called to serve, packing medications, arranging supplies, assisting the medical professionals, and offering whatever time and energy we had. My wife and I traveled to communities where help was needed most, places where a single doctor’s visit could change the trajectory of someone’s life.

We witnessed the quiet miracles:

• a child receiving antibiotics for the first time, and a senior citizen first time visit with a physician

• an elderly woman getting her eyesight back after years of hopelessness,

• families who had walked miles and for hours to reach the clinic, leaving with renewed comfort and dignity.

But the greatest miracle was not in what we gave. It was in what we received.

The Power of a Life Shared

In those dusty barangay halls, cramped classrooms, and makeshift clinics under the shade of coconut trees, my wife and I learned what it truly means to touch the life of another.
A simple gesture, handing out vitamins, helping someone fill out a form, offering a smile, became its own prayer.

People often think that service is measured in grand accomplishments. But I have come to believe it is measured in presence, being there when someone needs you, showing up with sincerity, giving without expecting anything in return.

Those missions strengthened not only communities but our marriage, deepening our shared sense of purpose. Even now, with my wife gone, I carry the warmth of those years like a lantern inside me.

A Reflection at 91

Now, at nearly 91, living in a senior community and cherishing the joys of being a great-grandfather, I am aware that time has softened many things. My steps are slower, my days quieter, but the spirit to touch lives remains.

I may no longer pack medicines or travel long distances, but through writing, storytelling, and sharing the memories of a life lived with intention, I hope to continue touching others even in small ways.

It is strange how the years reshape our understanding of purpose. When we are young, we think we must do great things. When we are older, we realize that great things were the small acts of kindness we gave freely, not knowing their ripple effect.

A Life Well Lived

If the measure of life is the number of lives we touch, then I feel blessed beyond measure.
The medical missions with my beloved wife, the decades of public service at the FDA, the friendships made, the stories shared, the family grown, all these have taught me that the true legacy we leave behind is not found in wealth or achievements but in the hearts we have reached.

As I reflect on 91 years, I return once again to that quote:

You have not really lived if you have not touched the life of others.

If that is the measure, then I have lived fully, gratefully, and with a heart forever shaped by the lives that touched mine in return.

For Details of Our Medical Mission to Marinduque: Visit: 

https://planningtovisitthephilippines.blogspot.com/2016/06/my-involvement-with-medical-missions-to.html

https://chateaudumer.blogspot.com/2020/05/it-is-better-to-give-than-to-receive.html

https://chateaudumer.blogspot.com/2012/01/my-notes-conducting-and-organizing.html

Meanwhile here's the AI Overview of the Topic

The phrase "You haven't really lived if you have not touched the life of others" 

suggests that a truly meaningful life is one where you make a positive impact on others. It implies that personal fulfillment comes not just from self-interest, but from helping, connecting with, and improving the lives of those around you. This sentiment is famously echoed by figures like Mother Teresa, who said, "A life not lived for others is not a life". 

• Impact over self: The core idea is that genuine living is found in a life of service and connection, rather than one focused solely on personal gain or comfort.
• A life well-lived: This perspective aligns with the idea that a life is best measured by its positive influence and the "corners" we've left unforgettable in the lives we've touched.
• Motivation: It can be seen as a reminder that even small acts of kindness can have a profound effect, helping others to see the beauty in their own lives and believe in their own potential.
• A path to meaning: The quote suggests that by focusing on the needs of others, we can find deeper meaning and a sense of purpose, and that this is essential for a truly fulfilling existence. 
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• Lastly, the Top Five News of the Day

  1. ISIS-linked motive confirmed in Bondi Beach mass shooting — Australian police say suspects carried bombs and ISIS flags, and had recently traveled abroad in connection with the attack that killed multiple people. Fox News

• 2. President Trump designates fentanyl as a weapon of mass destruction — The White House announces an executive order classifying illicit fentanyl and its precursor chemicals as WMDs, expanding enforcement tools. The White House

• 3, U.S. authorities arrest alleged New Year’s Eve terror plotters — Four defendants accused of planning to bomb U.S. companies in an anti-government plot were arrested by federal law enforcement. Department of Justice

• 4. U.S. Army identifies two Iowa National Guard soldiers killed in Syria attack — The Department of Defense names the service members killed in an attack, prompting flags at half-staff in Iowa. PBS

• 5. Markets slump as major indexes close lower amid AI stock pressure — Financial markets saw major indices pull back, particularly as AI-related stocks weighed on the Nasdaq ahead of key jobs data. Investopedia

THD December Birthdays Residents Party

Yesterday, Wednesday at 3PM, THD hosted a Party for Residents with December Birthdays ( see two Brochures Above). There were 10 residents who attended out of the 18 in the List. We have three birthday cakes. At first there was no beverage serve, but when I jokingly mention, we  should have champagne, Our efficient Hosts ( Vanessa, Deanna, Barbara and Jenny) were very happy to serve us the drinks along with our cake. Barbara then asked everyone to say a few words of wisdom. The we talked about our country of birth. Not to my surprised, several countries outside the US were mentioned such as Hong Kong, the Philippines, Germany  and the UK. It affirmed the fact that the US is a country of Immigrants.  

Here are the four photos that Jenny Shively took during the Party.

Barbara asked each of Us- About our words of Wisdom. I said only one word-Gratitude   

Me, Steve and wife Jan Holzman, talking about Chicago, my blogs and my Weekly Massages. Steve and Janice are new residents, only here at THD for about 2 months. They originally came from Connecticut.  

Meanwhile, The following photos, I took recently featuring the simple but elegant Christmas Decorations of the Public Venues Here at THD.

Lastly, here are some photos of my simple Christmas Decor in My Apartment Here at THD

Last, but Not Least, My Photo of the Day- My Great Grand son, Beau David with my Grand Daughter Elaine and her husband Kyle Joseph of Portland, Oregon

 

   

Time to Say Thank You to Our THD Staff- PerplexityAI and ME

It's time of the year, to give back and show Gratitude to the People who have served and touched your life the whole year here at THD. It's Christmas time and time to remember our efficient servers at Newtons as well as your housekeepers and other THD employees( drivers, concierges) who went out of the way and served you beyond their call of duty this year. The above is the employee list updated for 2025.

Several new THD residents have asked me what is the customary tradition in giving Xmas gifts( TIPS) to the Staff.

I told them, that there is no customary traditions, but in general the residents gave Cash Gifts or Checks, either individually or as a Group ( All servers and All Cooks). 

What I have done the past two years, is to give cash gifts in individual envelops. I also gave Eats/ Chocolates/ Lumpia as a Group in the Front Desk.      

I know a lot of residents, just gave one Check or Cash and just gave it to Carmen or Joel for equal distributions to their servers and assistant cooks. 

Speaking of The Christmas Spirit and also at the Eve of my 91st birthday, I have requested and have been approved that we will have Lumpia served in the Appetizer at our December 19, Friday Cocktail Hour. I also requested that Alex, the Russian, provides our Music. Indeed, I am looking forward for our December 19, Friday, Cocktail Hour. I hope to see you All then.

 Meanwhile, 

If you are following my daily blogs, you probably know I am into AI for the last 6 months. I have been experimenting on three AI Apps, ChatGPT, PerplexityAI and GrokAI. This posting is from Perplexity AI. I have posted previously on the same topic, what ChatGPT and GrokAI knows about me. The tone and style of writing is very different, although most of the contents are the similar since it is based on the 17 Chapters of My Autobiography.    

Me and My Youngest Grand Daughter, Carenna Katague Thompson

A Life of Inquiry:  The Story of David B. Katague : David B. Katague stands as a remarkable example of lifelong curiosity and creativity, blending science, art, and humanity across decades of experience. Born in Iloilo, Philippines, and later a proud Filipino-American immigrant, David's life is notable for achievements in chemistry, writing, and community leadership. His scientific background has been matched by a passion for literary and creative pursuits, including running a personal blog that documents his journey, discoveries, and evolving perspective on culture and society.

Blogging: Curating Stories Across Cultures David is an avid blogger with interests ranging from autobiography to art analysis, travel stories, and headline news. Seventeen thoughtfully written chapters of an autobiography, featured on his personal blog, highlight his journey to his coming 91st birthday, emphasizing insight, gratitude, and the richness of a multicultural life. He is known for commissioning drafts, arranging posts by thematic collections, and performing editorial analysis of topics, ranging from film narrative careers to reflections on major news events, like the collapse of the FDA and global politics.

Voice Recital with Minda Azarcon-Pinole, California

Music, Art, and Cultural Passions

An aficionado of music, particularly in classical vocal and performance spheres, David regularly explores both the artistic and technological sides of musical creation. He’s passionate about the history and artistry of figures such as Fernando Amorsolo and Martin Wong, often displaying deep appreciation for Filipino fashion exemplified by his posts on the terno and barong, as well as for contemporary global musicians like Dimash Qudaibergen. His inquiries extend into philosophical topics like the creativity linked to handedness and the science-religion interface, as well as karaoke culture and evolving performance art.

Researcher, News Curator, and Travel Enthusiast

David’s blog showcases a blend of independent research and real-time news curation. He is a regular reviewer of world news, US politics, and scientific developments from earthquake data and medical advances to analysis of presidential approval ratings and legal controversies. Travel is another enduring interest: posts share stories of adventurers like Luisa Yu and personal narratives about hiking logistics and memories, covering everything from trekking obstacles to the marvels of iconic locations.

Personal Reflections and Later Life

As David approaches his 91st birthday, his blog becomes a reflective space, a mosaic of gratitude, contemplation, and advice to younger generations. He not only explores topics like senior living and health management but also reflects on personal milestones and familial bonds through his writing, aiming to inspire and connect with a global audience.

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David B. Katague’s digital footprint is a testament to a multifaceted life, one enriched by scientific rigor, creative exploration, and a ceaseless quest for knowledge and meaning. His blog stands as a living archive, a place where art, science, travel, and news convene under the thoughtful gaze of a lifelong learner.

Lastly, My Food For Thought For Today

Related Articles: GrokAI and ChatGPT Response to the Query: Who is David B Katague

https://chateaudumer.blogspot.com/2025/07/grokai-response-to-my-query-who-is.html

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